What’s the difference between a sincere apology and a fake apology?

Sincere apology…you’re an adult and you apologized with no pressure from anyone around you. You sincerely see the error of your ways.

Fake apology…you’re a child and your mom forced you to apologize and hug your sibling/friend/etc even though under your breath, you were cursing said sibling/friend/etc. (see also: media-pressured and/or special interest-pressured apology followed quickly by “I’m going into rehab.”)

Which would you rather have?  First off, I’m not sure why people make fake apologies since that means they’re dumbing themselves down to the level of a child for a group of people who are mainly faceless and they don’t even know.  And secondly, I’d rather see someones true colors even if I don’t agree with them. 

I went on a date with someone who was relaxed enough around me (apparently) to state some pretty racist statements (in modern standards).  I stated that I vehemently disagreed and why.  And then I didn’t waste any more dating time on him.  It would have sucked for him to hide that side and/or make fake apologies for it.  If we got married, it would have made the reception with my family and friends rather awkward.  So although I think this person is rather uneducated on certain groups of people (and that’s a pity) and clearly didn’t exhibit the Christian value I strive for–love (and tolerate) one another, I say “Thank you, racist boy, for showing your true colors so I could get the heck outta Dodge.”

Nuf said.